You Deserve Love and Joy

I provide generosity-based services in the form of tools and guidance to turn unhappiness and anxiety into joy and peace through hypnotherapy and other tools, empowering you to live your full authentic life.

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A Tidy Summary

Donation Based Mental Wellness

In 2025, I left my corporate job of 20+ years and dedicated myself to being of service as a donation-based provider.

Meaning, I offer my extensive skills as a hypnotherapist, alt-relationship coach, and transformation mentor with no set fee. Instead, after each session, I send you a link to make a donation and if you do, great. If you don’t, great. It has no impact on the service I provide.

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Hi! I’m Daniel

I am a certified hypnotherapist, with extensive experience with relationship coaching on non-standard relationships such as polyamory and authority transfer, and am a lifelong self-improvement enthusiast. I have extensive training in a variety of modalities and I am also the co-author of multiple books on non-standard relationships as well as have been a sought-after presenter and speaker for over twenty years.

You can find out more about the other projects I’ve been involved in – like The Polyamory Toolkit, Hearts and Collars, Power eXchange Summit, Erotic Awakening Podcast, and more – below.

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How I Can Help You On Your Path

Services below are provided as donation based to avoid financial barriers.

Hypnotherapy

Wonderful tools for anxiety and mental wellness.

Alt Relationship Guidance

Experience based polyamory and power exchange counsel.

Sexual Wellness Healing

I bring a unique perspective to creating a safe space for healing and honoring sexuality in all its forms.

Self Acceptance Tools

Develop a strong sense of self-worth and overcome limiting beliefs. Empower yourself to make positive behavioral changes that stick.

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Katie W.

Milwaukee, WI

Dan exudes a wonderful combination of warmth and competence that made me feel incredibly safe.  I had never worked with a hypnotherapist before and wasn’t sure what to expect.   My session was deeply relaxing and emotionally cathartic.   I “awoke” feeling peaceful and “glowy”.   I would highly recommend working with him!    

Echoes Within

Echoes Within is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting mental wellness, personal growth, and transformation among marginalized and alternative community members.

Our mission focuses on providing keys in reducing anxiety, building self-acceptance, fostering confidence, and providing tools for goal-setting and life transformation.

We provide on site and remote assistance to anyone in need. See our website for more information.

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About Hypnotherapy

Hypnotherapy is different from traditional ‘talk therapy’; we begin making significant changes from the very first session.

Hypnosis increases your ability to create change. Together, we will change negative thought patterns, habits, and emotional triggers. Hypnosis is more effective and works more quickly than traditional talk-therapy or psychoanalysis.

  • Reduce Anxiety
  • Create Heathy Patterns
  • Move Past Feeling Stuck
  • Increase Motivation
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Relationship Guidance

I am the author of The Polyamory Toolkit, often quoted as “the manual for how to do Polyamory“, and the power exchange best seller Living M/s.

My guidance around relationships is based on providing tools and how they worked (or didn’t) in my life. Together, we will construct the plan tailored to you and your situation.

My Experience:

  • Multiple long term (decades) successful polyamorous relationships.
  • Powerful authority transfer relationships in various styles (M/s, D/s, as well as long distance and mixed home).
  • Changing my own life from active junkie to 30+ years clean.
  • Former Buddhist monk and self growth enthusiast.

Embrace Joy and Authenticity

Reach out to connect today. Contact me via the form or lets chat online for a no obligation consultation.

    More Projects I Am Involved With

    An overview of the various career and activities that keep me busy.

    Echoes Within

    www.echoeswithin.org

    Echoes Within is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting mental wellness, personal growth, and transformation among marginalized and alternative community members.

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    Belum Hypnosis

    belumhypnosis.com

    I help people living alternative lives turn unhappiness and anxiety into joy and peace, empowering them to live their full authentic life.

    Erotic Awakening Podcast

    eroticawakeing.com

    This team member excels in leadership and strategic thinking.

    Just For Fun Improv

    justforfunimprov.me

    Connecting Improv Enthusiasts Through Joy and Collaboration.

    Daniel Belum Stage Hypnotist

    Stage Hypnotist

    danielbelum.me

    Experience a one-of-a-kind comedy hypnosis show that blends laughter, improv, and fascinating insights, making every performance unforgettable.

    Books I’ve Written

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    Books I’ve co-authored on polyamory, power exchange, and more.